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Tuesday, December 2, 2025

Cellphones: Blessing or Curse

Recently, writer Jonathan Haidt, a social psychologist, posed this question to ChatGPT: 

“If you were the devil, how would you destroy the next generation, without them even knowing it?” 

Here’s a bit of the answer he shared in a Free Press article:

“I’d keep them busy. Always distracted” and “I’d watch their minds rot slowly, sweetly, silently. And the best part is, they’d never know it was me. They’d call it freedom.”

Mr. Haidt wrote, “It seemed to be saying, if the devil wanted to destroy a generation, he could just give them all smartphones.” He came to this after studying why Gen Z, the kids born between 1996 and 2012, experienced an increase in mental health problems beginning in the early 2010s.

Sometimes, truth also comes packaged in unorthodox places.

The Babylon Bee
online satire site had a recent headline, “Jesus Heals Demon-Possessed Man by Taking Away His Cellphone.” “Multiple reports indicated that the man’s rages, convulsions, and foaming at the mouth were instantly healed as soon as Jesus removed the man’s smartphone from his hand,” the story reads. “At publishing time, witnesses had reported that Jesus had told the man to go and scroll no more, or something worse might happen to him.”

Christians familiar with biblical accounts of Jesus’ miracles, plus his admonition to the woman caught in adultery to “go and sin no more,” will get this immediately.

Yet you don’t have to be a Christian to question whether smartphones have been a blessing or a curse. Clearly, they are both. Remember what it was like trying to connect with someone arriving at an airport? Or losing written directions on the way to a destination? Or not having change for a pay phone? Scratch that last one if you’re younger than 40.

The convenience has been astonishing. The world’s accumulated knowledge is at our fingertips. You can talk face-to-face with friends, loved ones and business acquaintances around the world, but the price has been steep.

A story broke last year in The New York Times about a remote Amazon tribe getting internet access and cellphones and developing social pathologies within two years. The tribe says the paper exaggerated, and it has filed a defamation lawsuit.

Nonetheless, the social effects of ubiquitous cellphones are obvious. Every weekday, on a nearby corner, middle and high school kids wait for a school bus. Every one of them has his or her head down, engrossed in a cellphone. No one is talking. No girl is flirting with a boy. No boys are comparing sports scores. At least not in person.

When we encounter these teens on neighborhood walks, we’re often surprised and saddened that they won’t even return a friendly “Hello.”

Apple founder Steve Jobs introduced iPhones in January 2007, and by the 2010s, they were everywhere. With instantaneous communication, Big Tech has created an environment in which kids are fed constant opinions and, often, dark themes. They can become victims of scathing psychological attacks or become part of a peer group assaulting another student. They can watch videos ad nauseam on TikTok, access pornography, create deepfakes and read posts that make their parents out to be ogres if they exert any discipline whatsoever glued to their phones angels” or make them subject to “spiritual degradation.” All too often, he writes, it’s the latter.

Personally, I have no doubt that God exists, came miraculously in human form 2,000 years ago to save our souls, and is still doing so. In any case, Haidt is on to something important. He offers “four norms” that could help: No smartphones before high school, no social media before 16, phone-free schools from kindergarten through 12th grade, and more independence, free play and responsibility in the real world.

Children, he says, need “to do hard things, over and over, and suffer setbacks and losses, in order to become strong, independent adults.” In other words, they need to develop character, something about which the Bible has much to say. For example, “Whoever walks in integrity walks securely, but whoever takes crooked paths will be found out.” (Proverbs 10:9)rampant. Throw cellphones into this mix, and you have a perfect storm.

A committed mother and father can make an enormous difference. For those lacking such a foundation, faith in a loving God goes a long way. “He will heal the broken-hearted and bind up their wounds.” (Psalm 147:3) The Apostle Paul offered a timeless antidote to angst and cynicism that could apply even to overuse of cellphones: “Whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things.” (Phil. 4:8)

Robert Knight is a columnist for The Washington Times. His website is roberthknight.com.


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"Be watchful, stand firm in the faith, act like men, be strong."
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John Wesley

"What we do in life, echoes in eternity."
Maximus Decimus Meridius in Gladiator

"Every man dies. Not every man really lives."
William Wallace in Braveheart

"When Christ calls a man, He bids him come and die."
Dietrich Bonhoeffer

"He is no fool who gives up what he cannot keep to gain what he cannot lose."
Jim Elliott

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“Christianity is the story of how the rightful King has landed, you might say in disguise, and is calling us all to take part in His great campaign of sabotage.”
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"The essence of Adam's sin was that he put himself in God's place. The essence of Christ's obedience is that He put Himself in our place. Because of His life in our place, and His death in our place, we are freed from our sins."
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"One of the greatest uses of Twitter and Facebook will be to prove at the Last Day that prayerlessness was not from lack of time."
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