Monday, May 26, 2025

Are Churches and Men's Ministries Becoming Like the Airlines?

If you’ve flown recently, you have probably observed that no one pays attention to the pre-flight safety videos. There may be the occasional uptick in interest after a well-publicized crash or near-disaster, but soon old habits return—people stuff their AirPods into their ears and stare at their phones rather than watch the briefings.

The airlines appear to have responded to this apathy by trying to make their videos eye-catching and clever. Air Canada no longer shows passengers on a plane but actors outdoors in a variety of Canadian locations. Lufthansa does something similar, though with more of an international feel. United follows some strange Rube Goldberg contraption across a bunch of green-screened locations. The videos are longer than ever and rather abstract. And as far as I can tell, people aren’t any more interested in them than their predecessors.

Many Christians and many churches, and ministries to men, have essentially done what the airlines have done. Seeing that people are either not interested in the message or are not understanding it, they try to repackage it. They dress it up. Instead of delivering the plain truth, they deliver something that is attractive but opaque, something that is meant to catch eyes but actually leaves people further from actual comprehension. But that’s no solution, for the problem is not with the gospel but with the one hearing it.

As we share the good news with others, we all eventually witness the truth of 2 Corinthians 4:4: “The god of this world has blinded the minds of the unbelievers, to keep them from seeing the light of the gospel of the glory of Christ, who is the image of God.” They don’t see because they can’t see and they can’t see because God has not yet removed the veil that keeps them blind.

Our task is not to dress up the gospel and not to change the message to make it more attractive or palatable. Sure, we can express that same truth in fresh ways and speak in words appropriate to a specific listener. But we cannot change the message and must not fail to speak it. Our God-given task is to preach and plead—to continue to preach the truth lost men and women need to hear and to plead with God that he would do what only he can do—that he would remove the blinders from their eyes and give them eyes to see the wonders of his beauty.

By Tim Challies is a pastor, noted speaker, author of numerous articles, and a pioneer in the Christian blogosphere. Tens of thousands of people visit Challies.com each day, making it one of the most widely read and recognized Christian blogs in the world. Tim is the author of several books, including Visual Theology, The Next Story, and, most recently, Epic: An Around-the-World Journey through Christian History. He and his family reside near Toronto, Ontario.



Saturday, May 24, 2025

God’s Protection from the Devil’s Schemes

 "So that we would not be outwitted by Satan; for we are not ignorant of his designs." 2 Corinthians 2:11

God’s word teaches us how the devil works through his three temptations of Jesus in the wilderness (Matt. 4:1-11; Luke 4:1-13). Clearly, the devil tempted Jesus to submit to his authority instead of God’s, which is not much different from the schemes the devil unleashes on us. Though our Lord defeated Satan completely and finally at the cross, in this age the devil is still our adversary who “prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour” (1 Pet. 5:8). In fact, starting in the garden of Eden we can learn much about the schemes Satan is still using.

The devil uses doubt to tempt us.

Our first parents, Adam and Eve, fell into the devil’s trap much like many today fall into his traps. We should be wary of the same schemes he used against Adam and Eve. We should, as Peter wrote, be sober-minded and watchful when we are confronted with crafty temptations to follow the ways of the world rather than submitting to our Lord and Savior.

For example, when the devil asked Eve, “‘Did God actually say…?'” (Gen. 3:1), he was creating doubt concerning God’s word. He was challenging God’s commandments, creating suspicion and confusion as he began to drawn Eve away from our heavenly Father. We are often faced with the same doubts as the world rejects the existence of God or some self-professing Christians reject the truth of his eternal Word. It’s not difficult to be drawn into the devil’s schemes when people around us challenge the truth God has given in his holy Scriptures, the Bible.

The devil uses desire to tempt us.

Another leading scheme the devil used in the garden and continues to use today is desire. He places things in our lives and in front of our eyes to try and lead us away from God. After the devil challenged the truth of God, directly assaulting God’s word when he lied, saying, “‘You will not surely die'” (Gen 3:4), Eve looked at the fruit of the forbidden tree and saw that it was, “good for food, and that it was a delight to the eyes” (Gen 3:6). Against the will of God, Eve desired what was forbidden, much like the world assaults our eyes with innumerable temptations.

Advertisements entice us to covet and consume beyond our financial limits. Satan uses soft and hard pornography to lead us to lustful and adulterous desires. Lifestyles of the wealthy, reality entertainers, politicians, and others who appear to be living “the good life” tempt us to pursue endeavors at odds with God’s moral law—away from loving God and others toward the selfishness of self-gratification. All these are the devil’s schemes, which are designed to separate us from our Lord and Savior.

God has given us protection against the enemy’s schemes.

Yet, God has given us his armor to protect us against schemes like this—the belt of truth, the breastplate of righteousness, the gospel of peace, the shield of faith, the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God (Eph. 6:14-18). The last is especially notable since it is God’s word that is truth, which like a sword does battle for us against schemes of the devil. And God has not left us without the means to resist. His word, the fellowship and encouragement of fellow believers, prayer, worship, and especially the power of the Holy Spirit—who dwells within us—are all means of grace God has given to us to help us persevere against the devil’s schemes.

 

Daniel Rowlands is content editor at Beautiful Christian Life. He returned to an academic setting to complete Master of Arts degrees in Biblical Studies and Theological Studies from Westminster Seminary California after serving more than two decades in the United States Army as a helicopter and airplane pilot, and completing a career in various investment advisory roles and financial planning. He has lived and traveled around the world and currently resides in Idaho where he serves in his church as a teacher. For leisure, besides studying the Scriptures, he enjoys fly fishing, hiking, and road biking.

Friday, May 23, 2025

Designed for Joy: How the Gospel Impacts Men and Women, Identity and Practice

INTRODUCTION
How Does the Gospel Shape Manhood and Womanhood?
by Dr. Owen Strachan
Excerpt from Designed for Joy: How the Gospel Impacts Men and Women, Identity and Practice - https://a.co/d/860Lqn6

The lips of the young woman quivered. Tears rolled down her face.
Her angry father stared at her. “I thought you were the kind of girl
who didn’t get into this sort of trouble,” he said. She looked back
at him, confused and adrift: “I guess I don’t really know what kind
of girl I am.”


This exchange came in Juno, a poignant film made a few years
ago. It’s a quick scene, but it has stuck with me ever since. In this
young woman’s reply, I heard the confusion of an entire generation.
So many young men and young women don’t know who they are.
They’ve never been taught what a man or a woman is. They may
have seen terrible pain in their home, and they may have grown
up without a father, or less commonly, without a mother. Or they
might have had a father and a mother, but their home was com-
promised by sin in some way. The family didn’t eat together. The
parents weren’t happy together. The children grew up without dis-
cipleship or investment.


Families are struggling. As one would expect, many
young men and young women lack a road map—a script—for their
lives. When you’re in this confusing and confused state, you don’t
have answers to the most basic questions about your life. This is
true of your fundamental identity, which includes your manhood
or womanhood. What do I mean by this?

You Need to Know Who You Are

Many high schoolers, college students, and twentysomethings know
they have a body (this is kind of obvious); further, they know they’re
a boy or a girl, a man or a woman; and they know they want to
follow Jesus. But they have little sense of how these realities inter-
twine. They don’t know what their gender, their sexuality, is for.
So they’re tentative. They’re confused. Quietly, perhaps with some
shame, they ask these kinds of questions in their own minds:
• What is my purpose?
• Why do I have this body?
• What does it mean to be a man or a woman?


This book is intended to help you figure out who you were
made to be. We want to give you an inspiring vision for your life as
a young man or a young woman. We see that our society is train-
ing you to think wrongly about gender and sexuality. It’s telling
you things like: there are no essential differences between men and
women; you can change your gender if you want, and that’s totally
fine; you can be attracted to whomever comes most naturally to
you—boys can like boys, girls can like girls; and finally, there are
no responsibilities or callings that come with being a man or a
woman—you do whatever you like.


In this book, we’re going to show that these ideas are false and
harmful. We’re going to offer true words and biblical counsel to
you so you can know who you are and what you were created for.


We will see that we are designed by God, and that his design brings
us joy.


We’re not going to simply offer you “Ten Tips to Be the Manly
Man’s Man, the Manliest of Them All” or “Five Ways to Make
Doilies and Sing Nineteenth-Century Hymns at the Same Time.”

We’re coming at all this from a fresh perspective. You can almost
hear the can cracking open as you read these words. We want you
to see that the gospel, the good news of Jesus’s saving death and
life-giving resurrection, is the central fact, the most important part,
of your life as a God-loving man or woman. The gospel saves us,
remakes us, and helps us understand who we truly are and what we
are called to be for God’s glory and our joy.


The gospel is what frees us from our sin. The gospel is what al-
lows us to live to the full, our hearts soaring, our pulses pounding,
our lives stretching before us, full of hope, full of meaning. With
this in our minds, let’s now consider four ways that the gospel
shapes us as men and women.


The Gospel Makes Sense of the Image of God


One of the foundational realities of human beings, men and women
alike, is that we are made in the image of God. See Genesis 1:26–27,
which reads:


Then God said, “Let us make man in our image, after our like-
ness. And let them have dominion over the fish of the sea and
over the birds of the heavens and over the livestock and over
all the earth and over every creeping thing that creeps on the
earth.”


So God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him;
male and female he created them.

In other words, we’re created in a special way to display the full-
orbed grandeur of our Creator. We do this by creating, by thinking,
by taking dominion, and by enjoying relationships with one an-
other.


But even this awe-inspiring theological truth can be a bit abstract,
can’t it? What role, we might wonder, do our bodies have to
play in being the image of God?


Before we’re converted, we understand that we are either male
or female. That’s well and good. But it’s only when we’re saved by
the grace of almighty God that we truly begin to grasp the meaning
of our bodies, our sexuality. We are created as men or as women to
inhabit our manhood and womanhood to the glory of our Maker.
He did not make us all the same. He loves diversity. He revels in it.
He created a world that pulses with difference, that explodes with
color, that includes roaring waterfalls and self-inflating lizards and
rapt, at-attention meerkats. But humankind, man and woman, is
the pinnacle of his creation.


In Christ, we understand that our manhood or womanhood
is not incidental. It’s not unimportant. It is the channel through
which we will give God glory all our days. We have been put here
to “image” God. After conversion, we understand that we’re here
to give evidence of his greatness. We do that in substantial part by
receiving our God-given sexuality as a gift. God created us as “male
and female,” not as something else. The passage above states three
separate times that God “created” the man and woman, stressing
God’s role in making the man and woman his image bearers. There
is intentionality, wisdom, and purpose in the creation of Adam and
Eve, as the gospel frees us to see.


Simply receiving and reveling in this reality is a matter of wor-ship.
It’s not complicated, but it is profound. I am a man or a
woman designed in just this way by God, we should think to our-
selves as we consider the body given us from above. In the same
way that the Grand Canyon was created to show God’s power,
and the skies his handiwork, as a man or a woman I was formed
to display the beauty of his brilliant design. In our fallenness, we’re
tempted to think that we have no greater reason to live, and that
we’re only “dust in the wind,” as the famous song says. In truth,
we are diamonds in the wilderness. We’re no genetic accident, no
freakish outcome of history. We’re the special creation of God.
You could sum these thoughts up like this: as believers, we’re
not Christian Teletubbies. We’re not gospel blobs. We’re not the
redeemed androgynous. We are gospel-captivated men and gospel-
captivated women. When converted, we come to understand that
our bodies are given us as vessels by which to put God’s wisdom
and intelligence and love on display.


Whether single or married, whether young or old, we have been
given our manhood or womanhood as a blessing. Our bodies, with
their distinctive designs, tell us that there is an exhilarating intel-
ligence, and a grander story, behind our frame and form.
The Gospel Gives Us Power over Our Natural Weaknesses
The gospel is our fundamental marker of identity. The work of
Christ applied to our hearts is such an unstoppable, unopposable
force that it refigures us entirely. It’s as if our old boundary mark-
ers have completely fallen away, as Paul says: “For as many of you
as were baptized into Christ have put on Christ. There is neither
Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free, there is no male and
female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus” (Gal. 3:27–28). This text
doesn’t mean that the gospel wipes out manhood and womanhood.
It does mean that our fundamental reality in life is our identity in
Jesus Christ.


This has immense practical value for us. As men and women,
we might be tempted toward certain stereotypes. Some young men
might think that being a man means bench-pressing 250 pounds,
dunking a basketball, or fighting off bears with their bare hands in
their spare time. (Actually, if you do that, you are pretty manly.)
Some young women might think that being a woman means being
sexually desirable, a lover of literature, and having a certain image.
Both groups can know that we are easily tempted to find our manly
and womanly identity in stereotypes. The gospel is bad news for our
stereotypes. It tells us that men are self-sacrificial leaders, and that
women are fearless followers of Christ.


We’re going to be pulled as men and women toward certain
ungodly behaviors. Men today are told that they are idiots, little
boys who never grow up. We see such immaturity in Adam’s initial
failure to protect the woman God gave him. We also see his selfish-
ness in his move to blame Eve for eating the forbidden fruit (Gen.
3:1–7, 12). Men are tempted by an array of sins, but they must
know that the gospel is the dread foe of their laziness, selfishness,
irresponsibility, and immaturity. The leaders of Scripture do not
look kindly on immaturity. “Show yourself a man,” David says to
Solomon (1 Kings 2:2). We men hear this call today. We recognize
that Jesus has the same challenge for us—and has all the grace we
need to meet it.


Women today are told that their value is in their looks, or their
social skills, or their ability to dominate men. We see such a desire
in Eve’s being deceived by the serpent and her post-fall desire to
“rule over” her husband (Gen. 3:16). This is an ancient problem
with modern consequences. Women are told today that they will
find fulfillment and lasting happiness in being strong. They are
urged to use their sexuality as a tool of empowerment. They are
challenged to disdain femininity. Christian women will feel these
and other temptations pull at them, but they must know that the
gospel shows us a better way. It opens a door to a happier world, a
world of joy. In Christ, the power of sin is overcome and the distinct
beauty of womanhood is celebrated.


The world gives us false visions of happy manhood and fulfilled
womanhood. It’s like the dinner plate that looked so good on your
friend’s Instagram but tastes so bad on your plate. Selfish manhood
and “fierce” womanhood are not too big for us, though; these vi-
sions of our lives are too small. Sin always looks like a monster
but ends up like a mouse. It has no power over us. It has no hold
on us. We don’t cower in the face of the world’s temptations. We
laugh at them.


We scorn the principalities and powers of this age. You think
lust and power are going to entice me? we say. Your vision of hap-
piness is too small. Show me a picture of my life as a man or a
woman that echoes into eternity and you’ll have my attention. In
Christ, we have found something better than all the world throws
at us. In him, we become the men or women we were designed
to be.


The Gospel Shows Us the Goodness of Limits


I remember going to basketball camp as a youngster. Part of the
expectation of basketball camp is that you will hear at least one
speech per week telling you that if you just practice enough, you
can be the next LeBron.


You may never have dribbled a basketball, but chances are you
have heard something similar. We’ve all been told this kind of mes-
sage over and over and over again: “You are amazing. You are a
star! You can be whatever you want! There are no limits in life for
you.” Many of us have heard of this formulation so many times that
it’s second nature to us. We naturally assume it’s true.


This kind of thinking is embedded in modern culture. It’s not just
a cheesy mantra, though. It’s a spiritual system in its own right. In
my book Risky Gospel, I even give it a name: “narcissistic optimis-
tic deism.” I think this is the new “moralistic therapeutic deism.”
The basic view of narcissistic optimistic deism is this:


• Life is fundamentally about me.
• I deserve for life to get better and to allow me to achieve all my
dreams.
• God exists to bless me and make my dreams come true.


If this sounds like a Disneyfied Christianity, that’s because it is. All
that’s missing is a little flying insect with a magic wand. A major
outcome of this way of thinking is this: you end up believing that
you don’t have any limits, and that if someone suggests that you do,
that’s a bad thing. People who might offer constructive criticism are
in reality “haters.” They’re in the wrong, and you’re in the right,
because if your heart feels it and wants it, it must be good.


This perspective is disastrous for our spiritual health. It fails to
account for our fallenness, our inherent sinfulness, which means
that every part of us has been corrupted by the fall of Adam (see Isa.
64:6; Rom. 3:10–18). This perspective has influenced the way many
people look at their bodies and lives. They say, “I can be whatever
I want to be.” Being a man or a woman doesn’t end up meaning
anything. There’s no structure or order to life.


There are many outworkings of this problem. If a couple is mar-
ried and the man doesn’t feel like working, then he stays home.
If the wife doesn’t really want to spend much time with her kids,
she doesn’t. If a teenage boy feels like a woman, then he’s free to
embrace womanliness. If a twentysomething woman is attracted to
other women, then she should act on that instinct. Narcissistic opti-
mistic deism tells us that whatever we want to do or be, that’s great.
God is the great cheerleader in the sky. No matter what we do, he’s
for us. He endorses all our appetites and commends all our instincts.
This view has as much to do with the biblical God as cronuts
do with Genghis Khan. Too many people today tragically follow a
fairy tale god. The God of Scripture is not our life coach. He is our
Lord. We’re used to this word as Christians, and so it loses its edge.
This divine title signifies that God is our master. He is our sovereign.
He is our ruler. He sets the tone for right and wrong. He calls us to
account for our sin.


His gospel brings both bad news and good news. It informs us
that we are sinful and destined for eternal judgment (Rev. 20:14).
It calls us to be re-created (Col. 3:1–10). Our chief need is not affir-
mation but Christ-powered transformation (Rom. 12:1–2). When it
comes to our sexuality, we have God-appointed limits. These limits
are not bad; they are good, and good for us. Men are called to be
men. Women are called to be women. We are not free to choose
our sexual predilections. We do not have the authority to remake
our gender.


The gospel opens our eyes to the goodness of our manhood and
womanhood, and the corresponding beauty of living according to
God’s design. We are not exhilarated by breaking free from God’s
wise and life-giving limits. When Adam and Eve failed to listen to
God by disobeying his commands and ignoring their divinely man-
dated boundaries, they fell, and we all fell with them (Gen. 3:1–7).
It was not life that came through their recklessness, but death.

Everywhere around us our culture celebrates rebellion and nar-
cissistic willfulness. The Scripture calls us to something better, and
this call envelops all our identity, including our manliness or wom-
anliness. Don’t try to become something you’re not. Embrace who
God made you to be, and what he calls you to be in his Word. That,
and not the selfish creeds of a Disneyfied age, is where you will find
true happiness and true liberation.


The Gospel Unlocks Joy for Men and Women


Sometimes, when Christians talk about embracing biblical gender
roles, we’re heard as only wanting people to do what’s right. Let us
make this clear: above all, we complementarians want to be godly
men and godly women who experience the joy that comes from
knowing God and living under his Word.


When you’re saved, you no longer see any area of life as a bur-
den. You see all of it as a garden of delight. Everything before you
presents an opportunity to give praise and honor to your Creator
and Savior (1 Cor. 10:31). This extends, in fact, even to what you
eat and drink—in other words, to the most basic parts of your daily
existence! That’s incredible.


This helps us make sense of how we are to live as men and
women. We know now that as blood-bought believers, we have the
opportunity to magnify God’s greatness and goodness as men and
women. Our sexuality, then, is not incidental. It’s not unimportant.
It’s not a curse that we want to get rid of. It’s not a burden that
God has given us that we do everything we can to downplay. Our
manhood and womanhood is a God-designed pathway to delight.

 

Our sexuality wasn’t designed by a secular entrepreneur, a vic-
timizing pornographer, or a Jason Bourne wannabe. Manhood was
produced by the spectacular intelligence of the Father. Womanhood
was created by the cosmic brilliance of the Father. Our culture tells
us the opposite: “Sure, you may be born with a few certain parts,
but that doesn’t mean anything. Men and women are interchange-
able. Gender is malleable, changeable, unfixed, unimportant.” This
is the opposite of the biblical witness. God made Adam as a man.
Then God made Eve, an image bearer like Adam as a human being,
but unlike him as a woman. She had a purpose in creation: to be his
“helper,” a noble title befitting a high calling (Gen. 2:18).


When Yahweh brought Eve to Adam, the man did not glumly
nod his head in acknowledgment. He exploded with praise and
delight:


Then the man said,
“This at last is bone of my bones
and flesh of my flesh;
she shall be called Woman,
because she was taken out of Man.” (Gen. 2:23)


If this is read in church, it’s probably read flatly, without a lot of
emphasis. In reality, the whole section should be in ALL CAPS. The
man “at last” has his covenantal partner. He is lonely no longer;
he has a helpmate; he finds the woman unlike him, fearfully and
wonderfully made, and this difference thrills him and causes him to
shout praise to his Maker.


The body, we see, is good. Manhood is good. Womanhood is
good. We don’t all look the same according to our sex. Not every
man has thick shoulders and a lantern jaw. Not every woman has a
certain figure and lustrous locks. But whatever we look like, we all
give immense glory to God simply by living joyfully as men or as
women, savoring our divine design, seizing opportunities (as later
chapters discuss) to live obediently as followers of Christ according
to our sex and our foundational Christian calling.

This is why we’re here. This is what the complementarian move-ment,

bursting with life, is all about. This is our hope and prayer for
you: that in owning your manhood and womanhood and viewing it
through the clarifying lens of the gospel, you would give God much
glory, and experience much joy.


Refigured Identity


I want to leave you with a true story that pulls together much of
what we’ve covered here. It’s a story of a little boy whose body
was weak. He couldn’t walk, and he was carried everywhere he
went. Over time, he became needy and weepy. If you saw him, you
would have pitied him. He was not even ten years of age, and he
was already way behind.


But then something happened. The little boy was adopted by a
Christian family. This was no ordinary family, however. It was one
led by a godly father, a man whose blend of kindness and author-
ity drew respect from his wife and children. His wasn’t the ultra-
modern home you see on Hulu nowadays—teens eye-rolling, chaos
reigning, Dad zoned out on his iPhone, Mom trying to tame the
far-past-gone toddlers. This was a home where a father trained and
pastored his children, and a mother devoted herself to her kids. This
was a home where you were expected to pull your weight, pursue
maturity, and sacrifice your interests to those of others.


This was the home the little boy entered. He couldn’t have ar-
ticulated his feelings, but he knew something was different. There
was order. There was discipline. And there was love, abundant love,
that spilled out into laughter and playing and real conversation. But
the boy wasn’t the only one watching. The father was watching,
too. He thought to himself, This boy isn’t lame. He’s not gonna be
a track star. But I think he can walk.


After a couple of days, he decided not to keep these thoughts
to himself. He gently prodded the little boy, his new son, to try
walking. So the boy did. At first it didn’t go well. Walking wasn’t
supposed to happen. His self-identity was fixed. But then something
clicked. The boy took one step, then another. A lurch became a
walk. Pretty soon he, too, was caught up in the whirl of the home.
He wasn’t the fastest, and the other kids had to help him at times.
But the switch was back on. The boy had come alive. His strength
was bigger than his weakness. His identity was refigured.


This true story elegantly illustrates what happens when the gos-
pel speaks into our sexuality. We gain strength from the power of
Christ’s redemptive work to become who we were made by God to
be. Once we were weak; now, in the Spirit, we are strong.


Once, like the young woman in Juno, we didn’t know what kind
of man or woman we are. We didn’t know what our manhood or
womanhood was for. Now, in Christ, we understand. Now, like a
child taking his first faltering steps, we are free to walk. Now, in
Christ, we are free to run.

 

Dr. Owen Strachan is Senior Director of the Dobson Culture Center.
As a senior fellow of the Center for Biblical Worldview of Family
Research Council, Strachan has authored numerous books, including
The Warrior Savior, The War on Men, and the best-selling Christianity
and Wokeness
. He also hosts a podcast called Grace & Truth. Strachan
is the former president of the Council on Biblical Manhood & Womanhood.
He earned his PhD from Trinity Evangelical Divinity School, his MDiv
from The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary, and his AB from
Bowdoin College in Brunswick, Maine.

Married to Bethany, Strachan is the father of three children,
including two teenagers. He enjoys hiking with his family, reading
biographies, coaching his son in basketball, and a good Western movie.

 

Monday, April 28, 2025

The Church is a Band of Natural Enemies

We’re constantly tempted to hang out with people just like us, who like the same things and who don’t really push us out of our comfort zone. This is true even – or especially – in the church. No matter who you are, you can find a church where the people are just like you, and the music is exactly what you’d play if you had the remote control. Donald Carson, one of the preeminent pastor-theologians of our time, describes the church below as not made up of our "natural friends, but as natural enemies.

"I suspect that one of the reasons why there are so many exhortations in the New Testament for Christians to love other Christians is because this is not an easy thing to do. Many fellow Christians will appear to be, at least initially or to the immature, “little enemies.” To put the matter differently, if Christians love Christians, it is not exactly the same thing as what Jesus has in mind when he speaks rather dismissively of tax collectors loving tax collectors and pagans loving pagans. What he means in these latter cases is that most people have their own little circle of “in” people, their own list of compatible people, their friends. Christian love…must go beyond that to include people outside the group. The objects of our love must include those who are not “in”: it must include enemies.

"Ideally, however, the church itself is not made up of natural “friends.” It is made up of natural enemies. What binds us together is not common education, common race, common income levels, common politics, common nationality, common accents, common jobs, or anything of the sort. Christians come together, not because they form a natural collocation, but because they have been saved by Jesus Christ and owe him a common allegiance. In the light of this common allegiance, in light of the fact that they have all been loved by Jesus himself, they commit themselves to doing what he says – and he commands them to love one another. In this light, they are a band of natural enemies who love one another for Jesus’ sake." (Love in Hard Places)

Tim Keller: The Gospel in a Nutshell

A TWO-MINUTE VIDEO OF TIM'S GOSPEL PRESENTATION IS HERE FOLLOWED BELOW BY THE TRANSCRIPT:

"We're not saved by what we do but by what God has done completely, wholly, and fully. We do not
contribute to salvation at all. How could that be? 

"The answer is when Jesus Christ came, he came to live the life we should have lived and die the death we should die. He lived a perfect life, the only human being who ever lived a perfect life. Therefore, he earned God's blessing. But then at the end of his life he went to the cross and took the curse that we deserved. He earned the blessing of a fully obedient human being but then he took the curse and punishment of imperfect disobedient human beings. That means that when you become a Christian, when you put your faith in him, all of your sins and what you deserve fall on him. But then all of his blessing, what he deserves, comes to you. God treats you as if you've done everything that Jesus Christ has done. That's radical! Now because we have this complete salvation, a complete gift, all accomplished by him; we contribute nothing to it and now we have received it. 

"There's a freedom first of all that we're free from any sense of condemnation, Romans 8;1 – “Now there is no more condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.” Do not fear ever coming into condemnation from God. We're also free not just from condemnation but from what you might say compulsion. We now want to obey God. We want to please him. We no longer are obeying the law of God out of a sense of duty or a sense of being forced or compelled. Instead, we want to please the one who did this for us. We want to resemble the one who did this for us."

Saturday, April 26, 2025

We Seem to Forget Remembering Jesus Christ

"Do this in remembrance of me." - (1 Corinthians 11:24)

Below is a Sermon Delivered on Sunday Evening, January 7, 1855, By Pastor Charles. H. Spurgeon at New Park Street Chapel, Southwark

1. It seems, then, that Christians may forget Christ. The text implies the possibility of forgetfulness concerning him whom gratitude and affection should constrain them to remember. There could be no need for this loving exhortation, if there were not a fearful supposition that our memories might prove treacherous, and our remembrance superficial in its character, or changing in its nature. Nor is this a bare supposition: it is, alas, too well confirmed in our experience, not as a possibility, but as a lamentable fact. It seems at first sight too gross a crime to lay at the door of converted men. It appears almost impossible that those who have been redeemed by the blood of the dying Lamb should ever forget their Ransomer; that those who have been loved with an everlasting love by the eternal Son of God, should ever forget that Son; but if startling to the ear, it is alas, too apparent to the eye to allow us to deny the fact. Forget him who never forgot us! Forget him who poured his blood out for our sins! Forget him who loved us even to the death! Can it be possible? Yes it is not only possible, but conscience confesses that it is too sadly a fault of all of us, that we can remember anything except Christ. The object which we should make the monarch of our hearts, is the very thing we are most inclined to forget. Where one would think that memory would linger, and unmindfulness would be an unknown intruder, that is the spot which is desecrated by the feet of forgetfulness, and that the place where memory too seldom looks. I appeal to the conscience of every Christian here: Can you deny the truth of what I utter? Do you not find yourselves forgetful of Jesus? Some creature steals away your heart, and you are unmindful of him upon whom your affection ought to be set. Some earthly business engrosses your attention when you should have your eye steadily fixed upon the cross. It is the incessant round of world, world, world; the constant din of earth, earth, earth, that takes away the soul from Christ. Oh! my friends, is it not too sadly true that we can remember anything but Christ, and forget nothing so easily as him whom we ought to remember? While memory will preserve a poisoned weed, it allows the Rose of Sharon to wither.

2. The cause of this is very apparent: it lies in one or two facts. We forget Christ, because regenerate persons as we really are, still corruption and death remain even in the regenerate. We forget him because we carry about with us the old Adam of sin and death. If we were purely newborn creatures, we would never forget the name of him whom we love. If we were entirely regenerated beings, we would sit down and meditate on all our Saviour did and suffered; as he is; all he has gloriously promised to perform; and never would our roving affections stray; but centred, nailed, fixed eternally to one object, we should continually contemplate the death and sufferings of our Lord. But alas! we have a worm in the heart, a pest house, a charnel house within, lusts, vile imaginations, and strong evil passions, which, like wells of poisonous water, send out continually streams of impurity. I have a heart, which God knows, I wish I could wring from my body and hurl to an infinite distance; a soul which is a cage of unclean birds, a den of loathsome creatures, where dragons haunt and owls do congregate, where every evil beast of ill omen dwells; a heart too vile to have a parallel—“deceitful above all things and desperately wicked.” This is the reason why I am forgetful of Christ. Nor is this the sole cause; I suspect it lies somewhere else too. We forget Christ because there are so many other things around us to attract our attention, “But,” you say, “they ought not to do so, because though they are around us, they are nothing in comparison with Jesus Christ: though they are in dread proximity to our hearts, what are they compared with Christ?” But do you know, dear friends, that the nearness of an object has a very great effect upon its power? The sun is many, many times larger than the moon, but the moon has a greater influence upon the tides of the ocean than the sun, simply because it is nearer, and has a greater power of attraction. So I find that a little crawling worm of the earth has more effect upon my soul than the glorious Christ in heaven; a handful of golden earth, a puff of fame, a shout of applause, a thriving business, my house, my home, will affect me more than all the glories of the upper world; yea, than the beatific vision itself: simply because earth is near, and heaven is far away. Happy day, when I shall be borne aloft on angels’ wings to dwell for ever near my Lord, to bask in the sunshine of his smile, and to be lost in the ineffable radiance of his lovely countenance. We see then the cause of forgetfulness; let us blush over it; let us be sad that we neglect our Lord so much, and now let us attend to his word, “Do this in remembrance of me,” hoping that its solemn sounds may charm away the demon of base ingratitude.

3. We shall speak, first of all, concerning the blessed object of memory; secondly, upon the advantages to be derived from remembering this Person; thirdly, the gracious help, to our memory —“Do this in remembrance of me;” and fourthly, the gentle command, “Do this in remembrance of me.” May the Holy Ghost open my lips and your hearts, that we may receive blessings.

4. I. First of all, we shall speak of THE GLORIOUS AND PRECIOUS OBJECT OF MEMORY—“Do this in remembrance of me.” Christians have many treasures to lock up in the cabinet of memory. They ought to remember their election—“Chosen of God before time began.” They ought to be mindful of their extraction, that they were taken out of the miry clay, hewn out of the horrible pit. They ought to remember their effectual calling, for they were called of God, and rescued by the power of the Holy Ghost. They ought to remember their special deliverances—all that has been done for them, and all the mercies bestowed on them. But there is one whom they should embalm in their souls with the most costly spices—one who, above all other gifts of God, deserves to be had in perpetual remembrance. One I said, for I mean not an act, I mean not a deed; but it is a person whose portrait I would frame in gold, and hang up in the stateroom of the soul. I would have you earnest students of all the deeds of the conquering Messiah. I would have you conversant with the life of our Beloved. But oh forget not his person; for the text says, “Do this in remembrance of ME.” It is Christ’s glorious person which ought to be the object of our remembrance. It is his image which should be enshrined in every temple of the Holy Ghost.

5. But some will say, “How can we remember Christ’s person, when we never saw it? We cannot tell what was the peculiar form of his visage; we believe his countenance to be fairer than that of any other man—although through grief and suffering more marred—but since we did not see it, we cannot remember it. We never saw his feet as they trod the journeys of his mercy; we never beheld his hands as he stretched them out full of lovingkindness; we cannot remember the wondrous intonation of his language, when in more than seraphic eloquence, he awed the multitude, and chained their ears to him; we cannot picture the sweet smile that ever hung on his lips, nor that awful frown with which he dealt out anathemas against the Pharisees; we cannot remember him in his sufferings and agonies for we never saw him.” Well, beloved, I suppose it is true that you cannot remember the visible appearance, for you were not then born, but do you not know that even the apostle said, though he had known Christ after the flesh, yet, thenceforth after the flesh he would know Christ no more. The natural appearance, the race, the descent, the poverty, the humble garb, they are nothing in the apostle’s estimation of his glorified Lord. And thus, though you do not know him after the flesh, you may know him after the spirit; in this manner you can remember Jesus as much now as Peter, or Paul, or John, or James, or any of those favoured ones who once trod in his footsteps, walked side by side with him, or laid their heads upon his bosom. Memory annihilates distance and leaps over time, and can behold the Lord, though he be exalted in glory.

6. Ah! let us spend five minutes in remembering Jesus. Let us remember him in his baptism, when descending into the waters of Jordan, a voice was heard, saying, “This is my beloved Son, in whom I am well pleased.” Behold him coming up dripping from the stream! Surely the conscious water must have blushed that it contained its God. He slept within its waves a moment, to consecrate the tomb of baptism, in which those who are dead with Christ are buried with him. Let us remember him in the wilderness, where he went straight from his immersion. Oh! I have often thought of that scene in the desert, when Christ, weary and way worn, sat down, perhaps upon the gnarled roots of some old tree. Forty days had he fasted, he was hungry, when in the extremity of his weakness there came the evil spirit. Perhaps he had veiled his demon royalty in the form of some aged pilgrim, and taking up a stone, said, “Way worn pilgrim, if you are the Son of God command this stone to be made bread.” I think I see him, with his cunning smile, and his malicious leer, as he held the stone, and said, “If,”—blasphemous if,—“If you are the Son of God, command that this stone shall become a meal for me and you, for both of us are hungry, and it will be an act of mercy; you can do it easily; speak the word, and it shall be like the bread of heaven; we will feed upon it, and you and I will be friends for ever.” But Jesus said—and oh how sweetly did he say it—“Man shall not live by bread alone.” Oh! how wonderfully did Christ fight the tempter! Never was there such a battle as that. It was a duel foot to foot—a single handed combat—when the champion lion of the pit, and the mighty lion of the tribe of Judah, fought together. Splendid sight! Angels stood around to gaze upon the spectacle, just as men of old did sit to see the tournament of noted warriors. There Satan gathered up his strength; here Apollyon concentrated all his satanic power, that in this giant wrestle he might overthrow the seed of the woman. But Jesus was more than a match for him; in the wrestling he gave him a deadly fall, and came off more than a conqueror. Lamb of God! I will remember your desert strivings, when next I combat with Satan. When next I have a conflict with roaring Diabolos, I will look to him who conquered once for all, and broke the dragon’s head with his mighty blows.

7. Further, I beseech you remember him in all his daily temptations and hourly trials, in that life long struggle of his, through which he passed. Oh! what a mighty tragedy was the death of Christ! and his life too? Ushered in with a song, it closed with a shriek. “It is finished.” It began in a manger, and ended on a cross; but oh, the sad interval between! Oh! the black pictures of persecution when his friends abhorred him; when his foes frowned at him as he passed the streets; when he heard the hiss of calumny, and was bitten by the foul tooth of envy; when slander said he had a devil and was mad: that he was a drunken man and a winebibber; and when his righteous soul was vexed with the ways of the wicked. Oh! Son of God, I must remember you; I cannot help remembering you, when I think of those years of toil and trouble which you did live for my sake. But you know my chosen theme—the place where I can always best remember Christ. It is a shady garden full of olives. Oh that spot! I would that I had eloquence, that I might take you there. Oh! if the Spirit would but take us, and set us down near the mountains of Jerusalem, I would say, see there runs the brook of Kidron, which the king himself did pass; and there you see the olive trees. Possibly, at the foot of that olive, lay the three disciples when they slept; and there, ah! there, I see drops of blood. Stand here, my soul, a moment; those drops of blood—do you behold them? Mark them; they are not the blood of wounds; they are the blood of a man whose body was then unwounded. Oh my soul picture him when he knelt down in agony and sweat,—sweat, because he wrestled with God,—sweat, because he agonized with his Father. “My Father, if it be possible, let this cup pass from me.” Oh Gethsemane! your shades are deeply solemn to my soul. But ah! those drops of blood! Surely it is the climax of the height of misery; it is the last of the mighty acts of this wondrous sacrifice. Can love go deeper than that? Can it stoop to greater deeds of mercy? Oh! had I eloquence, I would bestow a tongue on every drop of blood that is there—that your hearts might rise in mutiny against your languor and coldness, and speak out with earnest burning remembrance of Jesus. And now, farewell, Gethsemane.

8. But I will take you somewhere else, where you shall still behold the “Man of Sorrows.” I will lead you to Pilate’s hall, and let you see him endure the mockeries of cruel soldiers: the smitings of mailed gloves, the blows of clenched fists; the shame, the spitting, the plucking of the hair: the cruel buffetings. Oh! can you not picture the King of Martyrs, stript of his garments—exposed to the gaze of fiend-like men? Do you not see the crown upon his temples, each thorn acting as a lancet to pierce his head? Do you not see his lacerated shoulders, and the white bones starting out from the bleeding flesh? Oh, Son of Man! I see you scourged and flagellated with rods and whips, how can I henceforth cease to remember you? My memory would be more treacherous than Pilate, if it ever cried, Ecce Homo,—“Behold the man.”

9. Now, finish the scene of woe by a view of Calvary. Think of the pierced hands and the bleeding side; think of the scorching sun, and then the entire darkness; remember the broiling fever and the dread thirst; think of the death shriek, “It is finished!” and of the groans which were its prelude. This is the object of memory. Let us never forget Christ. I beseech you, for the love of Jesus, let him have the chief place in your memories. Let not the pearl of great price be dropped from your careless hand into the dark ocean of oblivion.

10. I cannot, however, help saying one thing before I leave this point: and that is, there are some of you who can very well carry away what I have said, because you have read it often, and heard it before; but still you cannot spiritually remember anything about Christ, because you never had him manifested to you, and what we have never known, we cannot remember. Thanks be to God, I speak not of you all, for in this place there is a goodly remnant according to the election of grace, and to them I turn. Perhaps I could tell you of some old barn, hedgerow, or cottage; or if you have lived in London, about some garret, or some dark lane or street, where you first met with Christ; or some chapel into which you strayed, and you might say, “Thank God, I can remember the seat where he first met with me, and spoke the whispers of love to my soul, and told me he had purchased me.”

Do note the place, the spot of ground,
  Where Jesus did you meet?

Yes, and I would love to build a temple on the spot, and to raise some monument there, where Jehovah Jesus first spoke to my soul, and manifested himself to me. But he has revealed himself to you more than once—has he not? And you can remember scores of places where the Lord has appeared of old to you, saying, “Behold I have loved you with an everlasting love.” If you cannot all remember such things, there are some of you that can; and I am sure they will understand me when I say, come and do this in remembrance of Christ—in remembrance of all his loving visitations, of his sweet wooing words, of his winning smiles upon you, of all he has said and communicated to your souls. Remember all these things tonight, if it is possible for memory to gather up the mighty aggregate of grace. “Bless the Lord. Oh my soul, and forget not all his benefits.”

11. II. Having spoken upon the blessed object of our memory, we say, secondly, a little upon THE BENEFITS TO BE DERIVED FROM A LOVING REMEMBRANCE OF CHRIST.

12. Love never says, “Cui bono?” Love never asks what benefit it will derive from love. Love from its very nature is a disinterested thing. It loves for the creature’s sake it loves, and for nothing else. The Christian needs no argument to make him love Christ; just as a mother needs no argument to make her love her child. She does it because it is her nature to do so. The newborn creature must love Christ; it cannot help it. Oh! who can resist the matchless charms of Jesus Christ?—the fairest of ten thousand fairs, the loveliest of ten thousand loves. Who can refuse to adore the prince of perfection, the mirror of beauty, the majestic Son of God? But yet it may be useful to us to observe the advantages of remembering Christ, for they are neither few nor small.

13. And first, remembrance of Jesus will tend to give you hope when you are under the burden of your sins. Notice a few characters here tonight. There comes in a poor creature. Look at him! He has neglected himself this last month; he looks as if he had hardly eaten his daily bread. What is the matter with you? “Oh!” says he, “I have been under a sense of guilt; I have been again and again lamenting, because I fear I can never be forgiven; once I thought I was good, but I have been reading the Bible, and I find that my heart is ‘deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked;’ I have tried to reform, but the more I try, the deeper I sink in the mire, there is certainly no hope for me. I feel that I deserve no mercy; it seems to me that God must destroy me, for he has declared, ‘The soul that sins it shall die;’ and die I must, be damned I must, for I know I have broken God’s law.” How will you comfort such a man? What soft words will you utter to give him peace? I know! I will tell him to remember Christ. I will tell him there is one who paid the mighty debt of misery. Yes, I will tell you drunkard, swearer, whatever you have been—I will tell you that there is one, who for you has made a complete atonement; if you only believe on him you are safe for ever. Remember him, you poor dying, hopeless creature, and you shall be made to sing for joy and gladness. See, the man believes, and in ecstasy exclaims, “Oh! come all you that fear God, and I will tell you what he has done for my soul.”

Tell it to sinners, tell,
I am, I am out of hell.

Hallelujah! God has blotted out my sins like a thick cloud! That is one benefit to be derived from remembering Christ. It gives us hope under a sense of sin, and tells us there is mercy yet.

14. Now, I must have another character. And what does he say? “I cannot stand it any longer; I have been persecuted and ill treated, because I love Christ; I am mocked, and laughed at, and despised: I try to bear it, but I really cannot. A man will be a man; tread upon a worm and he will turn upon you; my patience altogether fails me; I am in such a peculiar position that it is of no use to advise me to have patience, for patience I cannot have; my enemies are slandering me, and I do not know what to do.” What shall we say to that poor man? How shall we give him patience? What shall we preach to him? You have heard what he has to say about himself. How shall we comfort him under this great trial? If we suffered the same, what should we wish some friend to say to us? Shall we tell him that other persons have borne as much? He will say, “Miserable comforters are you all!” No, I will tell him, “Brother, you are persecuted; but remember the words of Jesus Christ, how he spoke to us, and said, "Rejoice in that day, and leap for joy, for great is your reward in heaven, for so they persecuted the prophets who were before you."” My brother! think of him, who when he died, prayed for his murderers, and said, “Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they do.” All you have to bear, is as nothing compared with his mighty sufferings. Take courage; face it again like a man; never say die. Do not let your patience be gone; take up your cross daily, and follow Christ. Let him be your motto; set him before your eyes. And, now, receiving this, hear what the man will say. He tells you at once—“Hail, persecution; welcome shame; Disgrace for Jesus shall be my honour, and scorn shall be my highest glory.

Now, for the love I bear his name,
What was my gain I count my loss,
I pour contempt on all my shame,
And nail my glory to his cross.”

There is another effect, you see, of remembering Christ. It tends to give us patience under persecution. It is a belt to brace up the loins, so that our faith may endure to the end.

15. Dear friends, I would occupy your time too much if I went into the various benefits; so I will only just mention one or two blessings to be received. It will give us strength in temptation. I believe that there are hours with every man, when he has a season of terrific temptation. There was never a vessel that lived upon the mighty deep but sometimes it has to do battle with a storm. There she is, the poor barque, rocked up and down on the mad waves. See how they throw her from wave to wave, all toss her to mid-heaven. The winds laugh her to scorn. Old Ocean takes the ship in his dripping fingers, and shakes it to and fro. How the mariners cry out for fear! Do you know how you can put oil upon the waters, and all shall be still? Yes, one potent word will do it. Let Jesus come; let the poor heart remember Jesus, and steadily then the ship shall sail, for Christ has the helm. The winds shall blow no more, for Christ shall bid them shut their mighty mouths, and never again disturb his child. There is nothing which can give you strength in temptation, and help you to weather the storm like the name of Jesus Christ, the incarnate Son of God. Then again, what comfort it will give you on a sickbed—the name of Christ! It will help you to be patient to those who wait upon you, and to endure the sufferings which you have to bear; yes, it shall be so with you, that you shall have more hope in sickness than in health, and shall find a blessed sweetness in the bitterness of gall. Instead of feeling vinegar in your mouth, through your trouble, you shall find honey for sweetness, in the midst of all the trial and trouble that God will put upon you, “For he gives songs in the night.”

16. But just to close up the advantages of remembering Christ, do you know where you will have the benefit most of all? Do you know the place where chiefly you will rejoice that you ever thought of him? I will take you to it. Hush! Silence! You are going up stairs into a lonely room. The curtains hang down. Some one stands there weeping. Children are around the bed, and friends are there. See that man lying? That is yourself. Look at him; how his eyes are your eyes; his hands are your hands. That is yourself. You will be there soon. Man! that is yourself. Do you see it? It is a picture of yourself. Those are your eyes that soon will be closed in death—your hands that will lie stiff and motionless—your lips that will be dry and parched, between which they will put drops of water. Those are your words that freeze in air, and drop so slowly from your dying lips. I wonder whether you will be able to remember Christ there. If you do not, I will picture you. Behold that man, straight up in the bed; see his eyes staring from their sockets. His friends are all alarmed, they ask him what he sees. He represses the emotion; he tells them he sees nothing. They know that there is something before his eyes. He stares again. Good God! what is that I see—I seem to see? What is it? Ah! one sigh! The soul is gone. The body is there. What did he see? He saw a flaming throne of judgment; he saw God upon it, with his sceptre; he saw books opened, he beheld the throne of God, and saw a messenger, with a sword brandished in the air to smite him low. Man! that is yourself; there you will be soon. That picture is your own portrait. I have painted you accurately. Look at it. That is the place where you shall be here within a few years—aye, within a few days. But if you can remember Christ, shall I tell you what you will do? Oh! you will smile in the midst of trouble. Let me picture such a man. They put pillows behind him; he sits up in bed, and takes the hand of the loved one, and says, “Farewell! weep not for me; the kind God shall wipe away all tears from every eye.” Those around him are addressed, “Prepare to meet your God, and follow me to the land of bliss.” Now he has set his house in order. All is done. Behold him, like good old Jacob, leaning on his staff, about to die. See how his eyes sparkle; he claps his hands—they gather around to hear what he has to say; he whispers “Victory!” and summoning a little more strength, he cries, “Victory!” and at last, with his final gasp, “Victory, through him that loved us!” and he dies. This is one of the great benefits to be derived from remembering Christ—to be enabled to meet death with blessed composure.

17. III. We now have arrived at the third portion of our meditation, which is A SWEET AID TO MEMORY.

18. At schools we used certain books, called “Aids to Memory.” I am sure they rather perplexed than assisted me. Their utility was equivalent to that of a bundle of staves under a traveller’s arm: true he might use them one by one to walk with, but in the meantime he carried a host of others which he would never need. But our Saviour was wiser than all our teachers, and his remembrancers are true and real aids to memory. His love tokens have an unmistakeable language, and they sweetly win our attention.

19. Behold the whole mystery of the sacred Eucharist. It is bread and wine which are lively emblems of the body and blood of Jesus. The power to excite remembrance consists in the appeal thus made to the senses. Here the eye, the hand, the mouth, find joyful work. The bread is tasted, and entering within, works upon the sense of taste, which is one of the most powerful. The wine is sipped—the act is palpable; we know that we are drinking, and thus the senses, which are usually clogs to the soul, become wings to lift the mind in contemplation. Again, much of the influence of this ordinance is found in its simplicity. How beautifully simple the ceremony is—bread broken and wine poured out. There is no calling that thing a chalice, that thing a paten, and that a host. Here is nothing to burden the memory—here is the simple bread and wine. He must have no memory at all who cannot remember that he has eaten bread, and that he has been drinking wine. Note again, the mighty pregnancy of these signs—how full they are of meaning. Bread broken—so was your Saviour broken. Bread to be eaten—so his flesh is meat indeed. Wine poured out, the pressed juice of the grape—so was your Saviour crushed under the foot of divine justice; his blood is your sweetest wine. Wine to cheer your heart—so does the blood of Jesus. Wine to strengthen and invigorate you—so does the blood of the mighty sacrifice. Oh! make that bread and wine to your souls tonight a sweet and blessed help of remembrance of that dear Man who once on Calvary died. Like the little ewe lamb, you are now to eat your Master’s bread and drink from his cup. Remember the hand which feeds you.

20. But before you can remember Christ well here, you must ask the assistance of the Holy Spirit. I believe there ought to be a preparation before the Lord’s Supper. I do not believe in Mrs. Too-Good’s preparation, who spent a week in preparing, and then finding it was not the Ordinance Sunday, she said she had lost all the week. I do not believe in that kind of preparation, but I do believe in a holy preparation for the Lord’s Supper: when we can on a Saturday if possible, spend an hour in quiet meditation on Christ, and the passion of Jesus; when, especially on the Sunday afternoon, we can devoutly sit down and behold him, then these scenes become realities, and not mockeries, as they are to some. I fear greatly that there are some of you who will eat the bread tonight, and will not think about Christ; some of you who will drink the wine, and not think of his blood: and vile hypocrites you will be while you do it. Take heed to yourselves, “He that eats and drinks unworthily,” eats and drinks—what?—“damnation to himself.” This is a plain English word; mind what you are doing! Do not do it carelessly; for of all the sacred things on earth, it is the most solemn. We have heard of some men banded together by drawing blood from their arms and drinking it all around; that was most horrid, but at the same time most solemn. Here you are to drink blood from the veins of Christ, and sip the trickling stream which gushed from his own loving heart. Is not that a solemn thing? Ought anyone to trifle with it? To go to church and take it for sixpence? To come and join us for the sake of getting charities? Away with that! It is an awful blasphemy against Almighty God; and among the damned in hell, those shall be among the most accursed who dared thus to mock the holy ordinance of God. This is the remembrance of Christ. “Do this in remembrance of me.” If you cannot do it in remembrance of Christ, I beseech you, as you love your souls, do not do it at all. Oh! regenerate man or woman, enter not into the court of the priests, lest Israel’s God resent the intrusion.

21. IV. And now to close up. Here is A SWEET COMMAND: “Do this in remembrance of me.” To whom does this command apply? “This do YOU.” It is important to answer this question—“This do YOU,” who are intended? You who put your trust in me. “Do this in remembrance of me.” Well, now, you should suppose Christ is speaking to you tonight; and he says, “Do this in remembrance of me.” Christ watches you at the door. Some of you go home, and Christ says, “I thought I said, "Do this in remembrance of me."” Some of you keep your seats as spectators. Christ sits with you, and he says, “I thought I said, "Do this in remembrance of me."” “Lord, I know you did.” “Do you love me then?” “Yes, I love you; I love, Lord; you know I do.” “But, I say, go down there—eat that bread, drink that wine.” “I do not like to Lord; I should have to be baptized if I joined that church, and I am afraid I shall catch cold, or be looked at. I am afraid to go before the church, for I think they would ask some questions I could not answer.” “What,” says Christ, “is this how much you love me? Is this all your affection to your Lord? Oh! how cold to me, your Saviour. If I had loved you no more than this, you would have been in hell: if that were the full extent of my affection, I should not have died for you. Great love bore great agonies—and is this all your gratitude to me?” Are not some of you ashamed, after this? Do you not say in your hearts, “it is really wrong?” Christ says, “Do this in remembrance of me,” and are you not ashamed to stay away? I give a free invitation to every lover of Jesus to come to this table. I beseech you, do not deny yourselves the privilege by refusing to unite with the church. If you still live in sinful neglect of this ordinance, let me remind you that Christ has said, “Whoever shall be ashamed of me in this generation, of him will I be ashamed, when I come in the glory of my Father.” Oh, soldier of the cross, do not act the coward’s part!

22. And not to lead you into any mistakes, I must just add one thing, and then I am finished. When I speak of your taking the ordinance of the Lord’s Supper, do not imagine that I wish for you to think for one moment that there is anything saving in it. Some say that the ordinance of baptism is nonessential, so is the ordinance of the Lord’s Supper, it is nonessential, if we look upon it in the light of salvation. Be saved by eating a piece of bread! nonsense, confounded nonsense! Be saved by drinking a drop of wine! Why, it is too absurd for common sense to allow any discussion upon it. You know it is the blood of Jesus Christ; it is the merit of his agonies; it is the purchase of his sufferings; it is what he did, that alone can save us. Venture on him; venture wholly, and then you are saved. Do you hear, poor convicted sinner, the way of salvation? If I ever meet you in the next world, you might, perhaps, say to me, “I spent one evening, sir, in hearing you, and you never told me the way to heaven.” Well, you shall hear it. Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, trust in his name, find refuge in his cross, rely upon the power of his Spirit, trust in his righteousness, and you are saved beyond the vengeance of the law, or the power of hell. But trust in your own works, and you are lost as sure as you are alive.

23. Now, oh ever glorious Son of God, we approach your table to feast on the viands of grace; permit each of us, in reliance upon your Spirit, to exclaim in the words of one of your own poets:

Remember you, and all your pains
  And all your love to me—
Yes, while a pulse or breath remains,
  I will remember thee.

And when these failing lips grow dumb
  And thought and memory flee
When you shall in your kingdom come,
  Jesus, remember me!